The pleasure is all yours
So today you tell him he’s only going to get out of the cage if he’s pleased you throughout the day to your satisfaction.
This will obviously vary according to your various work patterns etc, (I’ve picked a day hubby is working from home) but here’s the general plan.
He’s to give you an orgasm to start the day. It can be with his hands, a vibe, or ideally his mouth. Worried you won’t be perfectly fresh? Fuck that – how often did he get you to suck him without showering first? Exactly. Just think about that and stop feeling guilty and enjoy it and stop feeling guilty! lol Let him make you cum while you read the news or a book or flick through Tumblr etc.
Next go and shower and leave him caged, horny, and smelling you with every breath. When you get back you might want to uncage him to shower, depending on the design, or just keep him in it. With our plastic one it’s quite good if it comes off and gets cleaned every few days.
If you want to you can play with him at this point. I love sucking his freshly showered cock. But not letting him out at all is hot too, and if you have any doubt he might play in the shower, keep him locked up.
Either way, at this point you explain the way the day is going to work. You might let him out this evening (do not promise more than letting out), but only if he’s pleased you all day, sexually and emotionally. He’s not allowed to ask for anything today, he’s only allowed to ask, ‘What can I do to please you?.
Then add a couple of specifics – if he’s home during the day say that you want an orgasm at lunchtime, and either way, as soon as you’re together at home after work the first thing you want is his mouth between your legs.
Ideally you’d hope for some extras, cute messages, flowers, dinner bought or prepared, etc
Come bed time you are to choose a movie or tv or a book of your choice and tell him you want to see how many times he can make you cum. He does not get unlocked until you are completely satisfied. At that point you could go a few ways.
1. Thank him but say you’re worn out and tell him to cuddle up against you caged while you fall asleep
2. Say he’s pleased you and restrain him and remove the cage and play and edge him if you want, before caging him and then untying him. Don’t do it for too long.
3. Say he’s pleased you, would he like to be uncaged? When he says yes, restrain him, and then, either do nothing (you only promised to uncage him this morning) or just play a bit and then leave him. So yes, the idea is you leave him tied up all night! If he has to come out, the cage goes back on. You might enjoy just teasing him every so often, or even climbing on and fucking him a little. But you’ll probably be all orgasmed out and just sleep. And that’s perfect.
Which you choose is up to how you’re feeing and if he’s managed to focus and ask what will please you all day.
Ask him how he found it, I bet he loved it, even if you left him untouched. Remember that the next time you feel guilty.
Note, you are going to need a butt plug next week for some activities. If you don’t have one now’s the time to buy one so you’re ready. Lovehoney currently have a 2 plugs for £15 deal
The jiggle ball ones and the lovehoney classic silicon ones are fab. Don’t buy anything too small or they just pop out which you REALLY don’t want.