Turn him on, and if you dare – share…
So today the basic task is pretty simple, turn him on as much as possible and reinforce he has four (or 18 lol) days left in that cage before he gets any release.
I’ll leave it to you to pick which combination of these, plus any you think of, will work best:
- plug his butt- not just at bed time, but when he gets home, or even earlier in the day if he’s used to it! Make him wear it and whisper to him, ‘I love your arse being stuffed for me, I bet it makes your balls even fuller!
- send him texts to turn him on, tell him how horny him being caged makes you, let him know you’re masturbating thinking about it (do it or just pretend, either is hot), say that him being caged so long really makes you want to tell your friends because you’re so proud, send him sexy pictures of yourself if you like doing that.
- use your shared blog, tell him to find you pictures on a certain theme that you know will turn him on, or just ‘post pictures that make your cock ache in your cage’
- set him a task of ‘finding some porn that we can enjoy together later’
When you get to bed you then follow up with the ideas from earlier, review the blog posts, watch the porn together and any mix of him being teased or pleasuring you, just remember, the cage stays on and you should cum, a lot!
One fun twist on the porn idea is going to http://www.youporn.com/categories/ and get the other person to pick categories they are most interested in and then choose a video to watch, or laugh at in some cases 😛 It can be quite interesting to find out what type turns him on most, if you want to know…
Tomorrow is Pamper Night – Yay!!! So tell him today, he is responsible for a nice meal for the two of you tomorrow evening, take out or eat out or him cooking. Plus you’ll be enjoying a nice bath run by him so he could get you some nice bits and pieces during the day, or even some flowers!
The Full Lockdown
So… here’s a much bigger challenge for those of you enough into this to be caging him up for the whole month.
Rather than just teasing about telling a friend, I want you to think about really doing it.
You obviously need to be cautious with this, you know your friends best. But if you have a girlfriend who might just be open to hearing about the fact you’re into this, and trust to keep it a secret, I challenge you to bring it up.
How? Well I think dropping ‘Locktober’ into the mix might be the easiest way actually.
There’s a lot of acceptance of things like National ‘Insert thing here’ Day or month. Movember’s become a big fund raising thing with moustaches. Well, Locktober can be a thing too!
Let me emphasise the trust thing though. If you can’t risk anyone finding out about this you should just keep it private unless you complete trust that person to keep your confidence.
What’s good about using Locktober as your way into a conversation is it’s something outside of you, that you can say you’re ‘trying’. You don’t have to go into a conversation saying ‘hey we love chastity play, have you tried it?’
How might it go…
So, hubby and I have been trying this thing called Locktober, have you heard of it?
Locktober? No, what’s that?
Well it’s kinda kinky, you won’t freak out? I thought you’d enjoy hearing about it though.
Oh hell, now you HAVE to tell me!
Promise you’ll keep it secret, just between us? Not even your hubby?
Of course, you know me now TELL ME…
Okay, oh god I can’t believe I’m going to tell you this…Basically, he’s teased all month, but not allowed to, you know, cum… so he’s crazy horny, it’s so much fun!
No waaaay! OMG All month?! wow
You’re not freaking out?
No I love it, tell me more!!!
Well that’s how I hope it’d go anyway, I’m trying it this weekend with a close friend I’ve wanted to tell for ages.
So at any point, if they look negative about it, just stop! It really is that simple. You’re confessing that you’re trying something that has come as an idea from others, it’s very different from saying ‘this is what we’re into’. it’s not something you’re doing forever, it’s just something you’re trying out for a laugh as far as they are concerned.
At this point you can pass it off as ‘I saw it and thought it might be a bit of fun’ and leave it at that. You’re kinkier than them, and that’s okay.
Notice I haven’t mentioned at all his cock is in a cage yet. SAVE THAT until you are sure they like the idea and are positive about it. REALLY SURE.
And if you’re happy they are…
Do you want to know the hottest bit?
I lock his cock up in a cage
A tight little cage that only I have the key to. He can’t get to his cock without me letting him, it’s awesome!
I’m dying here! This is the greatest thing you’ve ever told me!
He won’t believe I’ve told you, hold on, I should let him know, he’ll freak out, it’ll be so funny…
And really, do that. Let him know. Right as you’re telling her if you can. It’ll be such a crazy feeling for him.
And yes, don’t get too carried away, remember this is new to them. Answer questions they have if you’re comfortable doing it. Make them repeat the promise not to tell.
Then be honest about it if you want to, about how it’s brought greater intimacy, how much fun it’s been, revitalising sex lives, etc. It really is a great thing, just, surprising – heck, we were surprised! Tell them a bit about how you started off perhaps, just, less is better, make sure they want to know, answering questions THEY ask is your best bet.
And if they are very curious, if you simply get them to google ‘locktober tumblr’ they’l find my introductory locktober post last year as the first result! But don’t tell them that unless they are truly positive and want to find out more, it’ll be a baptism of fire going onto tumblr…
So, there you go, dare issued! Be smart with it but if you trust them, it’d be great to have a friend who knows I think. I’m excited, and scared, but mostly excited!
And just imagine if her reaction was..
You’re doing Locktober TOO?!
Thanks to @grumpy2017 who I nicked the wonderful captions above from.