Plugged and pleasured…
So, a last warning, tomorrow we’re going to try our first extended lock up – five days with little or no release from his cage.
Of course being in the cage for an extended period doesn’t mean no stimulation, no no that would be boring! So tonight we are going to do a bit more exploring of one of the main pleasure areas besides the cock, so he’s more ready for it once locked up. His bottom!
We mainly explored playing on the outside the other night. Now we’re going to add that other element if you haven’t already – penetration.
If you’ve got some experience in anal play and he’s home during the day or when he gets home you might want to get him to wear the plug (or for real pros, even wear it to work!). Let him prepare himself and put it in that first time, and then I suggest you make your freshly plugged man eat your pussy!
However most of the fun is going to happen in the evening. After a thorough shower and butt wash, snuggle up with a couple of drinks (booze is lube for the mind!), and unlock and begin to play with him, and then talk through what anal means for him. Discuss how it went the other night if you did that, just be open about how it was for both of you. You may discover he’s experimented quite a lot, alternatively you may find he is very worried about the penetration side ‘being gay’. Take the chance to talk anything through and emphasise that it’s just another way to give him pleasure and turn him on, and he’s very lucky to have the prostate gland up there that can actually feel amazing (something we women don’t).
Unlock him and start to play with his cock and add the fact that you like the idea of him being plugged for you as he’s getting used to the cage now and this is another reminder that he’s denied and to keep him even hornier.
Just don’t unlock him but do the rest!
Now, keep stimulating him and begin to reach down and rub his perineum (the gap between his balls and arse) and then the entrance to his bum. Lots of lube, lots of rubbing, and then begin to push a finger in as you play. If you want to you can slip a condom over your finger, some might even like the rubber glove medical look! Get him to describe how it feels all the time. He needs to be relaxed and enjoying himself for it to feel good.
Now, if you’ve got one, grab the butt plug and start to use it instead of your finger, playing around the entrance then into him with again more lube. The magic moment is when he’s stretched open with it and then his bum sucks it up and it settle into place.
This is why you NEVER use anything without a flanged base for this kind of play, or you’ll end up with a very embarrassing trip to the hospital!
Depending on the plug design you can fuck it in and out all the way or just smaller depths, whatever feels best really. Keep getting his feedback.Once the plug is in it might be a good opportunity to get him down on his knees eating your pussy and you can judge if it helps his performance!
If he’s really getting into this you might want to upgrade the plug to a dildo. You could get him to do it at this point if you wish, or try it yourself. Just be careful, you do NOT want to make him cum, and that’s very possible. So just go slow and don’t be too enthusiastic, this is just training! We want his balls nice and full for the coming lock up!
If you want, finish with an edge or two and leave the plug in him longer or even overnight!
If you haven’t cum yet, then make sure that happens!
Some tips: you can add a condom to the butt plug if you want ease of cleaning, they work better with some than others. You MUST use a condom on the dildo if you use it on yourself (although with silicon or glass dildos a really good clean with proper soap and water and a toy cleaner should be fine.)
If you don’t use a condom on butt plug, either go to the bathroom to take it out or have a little plastic bag by the bed to pop it in to keep things clean. If you’ve washed yourself out well before it should be fine but it’s still your bum!
So, as with the warning about butt plugs in advance, you should know I’m planning to do a session where you try pegging near the ‘climax’ of Locktober, so, if you fancy exploring that (and remember even if you don’t it’s brilliant for HIM to wear when caged so you can still be fucked) then check out the amazing range at our favourite store Lovehoney