It’s very hot to give him the choice, when he’s ‘owed’ an orgasm for whatever reason, whisper right in his ear when’s he’s close (but not completely on the edge)
‘What do you really want baby? Do you want to shoot your load, or would you rather I just keep you like this, just keep stroking, and then stop, and lock you up and deny you?’
You tell me darling, whisper it, ‘let me cum’ or ‘deny me’ and watch the arousal and torment as they have to choose.
I speak from experience on this as hubby used to make me choose when he denied me, and it’s just crazy – I usually picked ‘deny me’ lol
The best thing is you can ignore them anyway and do either, whatever you think is hottest, as you make the rules when it comes to them cumming. They’ll love it if you do that too!
How great is orgasm denial lol