You’re so welcome! Thank you for the lovely encouragement xxx
We do spanking, but it’s me getting spanked! And even then we end up laughing most of the time. It’s just not a thing for us, and the idea of doing it to him does nothing for either of us.
The only thing anything like that (they call it impact play in bdsm circles) we’ve done is some flogging his cock with a fun little rubber flogger from Lovehoney, just for fun as it’s quite a sexy sensation apparently.
But that’s okay, you know, different strokes for different folks (literally!)