Just a quick note to say a big thank you for the amazing tumblr blog you’ve created. It’s given my wife & myself a new lease of sexy life. I’m still trying to get my wife to follow you on a daily basis. (I do follow you every day) I’ve mentioned your new group for women only to my wife. She’s still not fully confident in what she does. This is my first ever message on tumblr, I’ve followed you for a few months now but only just opened a tumblr account. Thanks again. Regards.

Hi there, sorry to take so long to reply, haven’t been around much as I take a break after Locktober. But that’s so lovely to read, I really appreciate the feedback. It’s exactly why we run the blog and if there’s anything we can do to help let us know!

Jane xxx

Hi! After months of dropping hints about the benefits of male chastity, I finally tempted my wife to read your Locktober2017 intro post last night, and she liked it a lot. Being written by a lady for fellow ladies really helped and I thank you. Now I’m nervous/excited at what the future holds. As far as I can work out, men can only advance at the speed that their wives/partners want to advance. Maybe one day she’ll sign up to your wives whatsapp group! Thank you

that’s wonderful, I’m so pleased for you both. Remember just to take things slow and make sure you’re having fun and giving her plenty of orgasms! It really does smooth the path!

Jane xxx

Not a question but a thank you! We have dabbled in my lady having control, but normally I’m the dominant one. Anyway, she would be great at the physical part, but verbally easy on me. Our first locktober and she’s taken her mental game up a couple notches with your blog’s help. Keep the mind fuckery coming! I promise not to peek.

How wonderful, thank you, that’s just how I hope it’s being used.

I have some ‘scripts’ and roleplays that I’ll be introducing further into the month that should be a huge help for that too!

Jane xxxxx


I would like to thank you for your blog! I had fantisied about chastity for years. Your blog helped me get the courage to try it! My wife and I absolutely love the chastity life style! I had looked at a lot of sites with chastiy ideas and they were all about the hardcore side of it. Actually that is what I thought I wanted! Turns out, it went completely opposite for me! My first session was an awakening as to how selfish I had been in my marraige! Once I realized that I was not going to orgasm, I slowed down and concentrated on my wifes needs. I found that for the first time I could read her body and movements and gage her excitement. I have never taken my wife to the point where she was arched on her toes and the top of her head, nothing else was touching the bed! I did this with just my tongue?! I found that I want to spend more intimate time with her… not just the wham bam thank you ma’am! Part of our agreement was house reponsibilities. I was really a lazy bastard. I had no idea how much she did for me and how little I did for her in the matters of laudry, cooking, cleaning. My wife has made that fun for me though! When I am in chastity I can only wear an apron and a collar around the house! I just can’t believe how much i just want to cuddle and touch her! I feel like I can tell her anything. Now our communication on every subject has gotten better and deeper! We have really become more intimate and adventuous! We have developed some chastiy games that incorparate fantisies that we have both had, but felt we could not share with each other.  

This has been a wonderful, kinky, mind bending, loving, insightful adventure. I wish I had done it sooner!

That’s amazing, thank you so much for giving such wonderful feedback. It really is incredibly how quickly we can harness what was maybe causing negative things in a relationship (your horniness and fantasies) and how it turns into a positive when you’re open and try it together.

As I often say, we just tried it for a bit of fun and still can’t believe what an amazing impact it’s had in so many new ways on our relationship and sex life!

Hello I’m newly locked up and been following your blog for awhile, it’s so hot and my girl loves it, I get so submissive and horny I turn into a little sissy bitch lol well I already am a sissy lol but wow being in a cage is very intense at first especially for me one reason why I got it is because I play with myself too much, and this is helping me obviously I don’t have a choice lol but wow can’t believe what I’ll do to get let out aha cheers please don’t stop posting :))

Thanks Jimmy!

Lots of us love getting you in chastity but just take it slowly with the sissy stuff, that’s something you really need to explain to her and help her understand before you do too much.

I’m glad to hear the cage is helping with your masturbation addiction, it’s so much better to be focusing your efforts on her. I hope she’s being strict enough that she is getting the benefits and it’s not just about you. Make sure she reads this blog for some ideas too!

Jane xxx