Locktober 2018 #18

Post Orgasm Torture!

So a very mean one tonight…Post Orgasm Torture!

Post orgasm torture sounds a bit crazy but all it means is that once your man ejaculates, you keep stimulating him, yes, even though he’s gone super sensitive.

Again because we’re in Locktober we’re not even going to give him the pleasure of full orgasm, but simply ruin his orgasm, and then go back to wanking him after the pleasure is gone but he’s super sensitive!

We don’t do this often and I usually end up laughing as I do it as much as it being sexy, but, it’s a fun twist on NOT letting him cum, and as I suggest below, telling him if he cums before you say he can, that you’ll ruin it and then keep rubbing is, well it’s a huge hot mindfuck, that’s what it is!

HE HAS TO BE TIED DOWN! Or well, you can sit on his legs but seriously, don’t do this unless he’s restrained, hands and legs.

I’m not kidding. You will get thrown across the room.

But that intensity is so hot!

But yeah, arms tied tight, and legs too or you need to be sitting on them really firmly or well out of the way of them.

They seem to like using clingfilm for it in the videos!

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I also find sitting on his tummy quite fun, it really keeps him pinned down and his cock is easier to torment when it’s all I’m focused on, so that’s worth a try too.

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How to do it

Giving a hand job or blow job or good old combination of the two.

And then I tell him I’m going to do it, when he’s really close, that I’m not going to stop, that I’m going to keep on wanking him even after he’s cum – sometimes he kind of likes the idea, he won’t soon, trust me. Other times he starts begging me not to, I like that.

What can be very hot is do it as a threat. ‘If you cum before I say you can I’m going to ruin it then go back to rubbing you with your cum!’ And then just keep saying no until he goes over ‘without permission’ and use that as the excuse to ruin it and then torture him. SO hot!

Basically as he cums, just pause to ruin it, enjoy his desperate little moans!

I love to use his cum as the new lube, so I’ll put my hand over the top and make it fall right back down, and then I just go for it. He says there’s nothing like it he’s ever experienced, and he hates it and loves it all at once.

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So yeah, keep wanking him, it’s all about the head of his cock, the rest not so much. Give it a good minute or two if you like to hear him beg, or just 20 seconds to give him a shock.

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If you really want to go for it, try keeping going and see if you can ruin him again!

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And of course, climb on! Why not fuck him while he’s writhing around… it’s quite funny, not very sexy though.

My favourite video of it has disappeared but a quick search will find lots of them, here’s a few I found:

https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph59ab0a8753b40 A good double orgasm one with him tied up!

http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph57f978eda5d3a This latino woman’s got very good teasing talk! But the orgasm and torture is all in the last minute.

http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=473628659 This one the guy’s standing up, which is quite fun!

http://www.xvideos.com/video256196/cfnm_handjob_training_with_post_orgasm Is an odd older couple, Jill and Rob… but she apologises to him as she does it which I love! I keep going though, of course! Got to see it through!

https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph58f239d89f0d9 A final one that’s a good compilation of lots of them, inspiring!

If you have kids like us, you seriously might need to gag him! lol

I’ve told him I’m going to make him take Viagra and do this all evening one time – ‘no you’re fucking not!’ he replied. But it’s amazing what he’ll agree to get that cage off his cock!

Full Lockdown

Well if he’s stuck in his little cage then you’re limited on what you can do but you can still try, right? Look back at the caged ruin posts in Locktober, and do that, but keep the stimulation going. See how many times you can make his little caged cock spurt, ruining every one of them of course!

Locktober 2017 – Day 18

Post Orgasm Torture!

So a very mean one tonight…Post Orgasm Torture!

Post orgasm torture sounds a bit crazy but all it means is that once your man ejaculates, you keep stimulating him, yes, even though he’s gone super sensitive.

Again because we’re in Locktober we’re not even going to give him the pleasure of full orgasm, but simply ruin his orgasm, and then go back to wanking him after the pleasure is gone but he’s super sensitive!

We don’t do this often and I usually end up laughing as I do it as much as it being sexy, but, it’s a fun twist on NOT letting him cum, and as I suggest below, telling him if he cums before you say he can, that you’ll ruin it and then keep rubbing is, well it’s a huge hot mindfuck, that’s what it is!

HE HAS TO BE TIED DOWN! Or well, you can sit on his legs but seriously, don’t do this unless he’s restrained, hands and legs.

I’m not kidding. You will get thrown across the room.

But that intensity is so hot!

But yeah, arms tied tight, and legs too or you need to be sitting on them really firmly or well out of the way of them.

They seem to like using clingfilm for it in the videos!

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I also find sitting on his tummy quite fun, it really keeps him pinned down and his cock is easier to torment when it’s all I’m focused on, so that’s worth a try too.

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How to do it

Giving a hand job or blow job or good old combination of the two.

And then I tell him I’m going to do it, when he’s really close, that I’m not going to stop, that I’m going to keep on wanking him even after he’s cum – sometimes he kind of likes the idea, he won’t soon, trust me. Other times he starts begging me not to, I like that.

What can be very hot is do it as a threat. ‘If you cum before I say you can I’m going to ruin it then go back to rubbing you with your cum!’ And then just keep saying no until he goes over ‘without permission’ and use that as the excuse to ruin it and then torture him. SO hot!

Basically as he cums, just pause to ruin it, enjoy his desperate little moans!

I love to use his cum as the new lube, so I’ll put my hand over the top and make it fall right back down, and then I just go for it. He says there’s nothing like it he’s ever experienced, and he hates it and loves it all at once.

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So yeah, keep wanking him, it’s all about the head of his cock, the rest not so much. Give it a good minute or two if you like to hear him beg, or just 20 seconds to give him a shock.

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If you really want to go for it, try keeping going and see if you can ruin him again!

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And of course, climb on! Why not fuck him while he’s writhing around… it’s quite funny, not very sexy though.

My favourite video of it has disappeared but a quick search will find lots of them, here’s a few I found:

https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph59ab0a8753b40 A good double orgasm one with him tied up!

http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph57f978eda5d3a This latino woman’s got very good teasing talk! But the orgasm and torture is all in the last minute.

http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=473628659 This one the guy’s standing up, which is quite fun!

http://www.xvideos.com/video256196/cfnm_handjob_training_with_post_orgasm Is an odd older couple, Jill and Rob… but she apologises to him as she does it which I love! I keep going though, of course! Got to see it through!

https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph58f239d89f0d9 A final one that’s a good compilation of lots of them, inspiring!

If you have kids like us, you seriously might need to gag him! lol

I’ve told him I’m going to make him take Viagra and do this all evening one time – ‘no you’re fucking not!’ he replied. But it’s amazing what he’ll agree to get that cage off his cock!

Full Lockdown

Well if he’s stuck in his little cage then you’re limited on what you can do but you can still try, right? Look back at the caged ruin posts in Locktober, and do that, but keep the stimulation going. See how many times you can make his little caged cock spurt, ruining every one of them of course!

cagedinchastity:

marquiseoftease:

Do you still remember what masturbation feels like?
How your self made orgasms were the only thing on your mind all day every day?

That feeling of blood pumping into your cock, your strong grip around the shaft, your hand moving back and forth.
How you would get aroused under your own touches, slowly at first, then harder, faster, almost aggressive towards the end.

How you wouldn’t really savour that plateau feeling, those moments when your libido was strongest, when the urge would push you further. No appreciation for the beauty of these moments, all you wanted was instant gratification, an orgasm.

And sure enough, only a few more jerks and your body would follow the fleeting images of your mind. That warm, tingly feeling from the toes upwards, from the shoulders downwards, concentric ripples in your groin.

Without any further ado you’d cum, your body convulsing under the furious wanks of your hand. Two, three seconds of bliss while your cock spurts your semen on your belly.

And then … Nothing. Emptiness. Boredom. Back to whatever you were doing before.

So purposeless. Such a waste.

This is why your orgasms need to be controlled, supervised, denied.
So you can learn to concentrate on what really matters – spoiler: it’s not your satisfaction.

Chastity makes you focus on the greater good – the happiness and satisfaction of your partner.
Their orgasms become your centre of attention.
All the while, you stay locked, denied, teased – constantly horny, constantly on that plateau on the edge of orgasm.

Forever controlled – forever happy

It’s getting hard to believe that I’ve gone for months on end now without masturbating on my own. Once in a while when Lara has me lotion myself before a lockup I finally get a chance to stroke myself again. Unlike before, I now appreciate every stroke and am sometimes amazed at how hard I can be.

My hand now feels foreign, the motions familiar but the grip and size no longer what I’m accustomed to. I finally realize that I no longer own my cock nor my orgasms, and I am forever grateful for it. The pleasure and desire I get to experience now overshadows any fleeting release I once would have been able to squeeze out.

I am more than happy to willingly give up any chance to masturbate on my own ever again. This beautiful state of torturous desire is worth it even if it means my orgasms will forever be few and far between. I’ve never been happier to be left wanting more and for that, I’ll always be grateful.

I’m loving this couple’s blogs!

cagedinchastity:

Halfway into their session he felt his orgasm quickly building up. His screams muffled by her grinding pussy, the machine kept working his cock way past the point of pleasure. The mechanical sleeve didn’t miss a single beat as it relentlessly stroked his sensitive cock head. Burning pain began to overtake his flesh as waves of agony pulsed through his member. Pretending to remain unaware, Ashley couldn’t help but giggle out of pure joy as she peeked over to the time left.

The Tease or Torment Wheel

So one of our Locktober tasks was to go through your toy collection and make use of ones you haven’t used much. 

Hubby came up with a game that makes use of that which we are planning to do this weekend, and I thought you guys would like to see it too!

The Tease or Torment Wheel

Of course your toys would vary, but this is really easy to change, just go down the page and adjust the options to what you do or don’t own, or do or don’t want to do, and apply the changes!

We’ve set it up so they alternate, tease (white) and torment (red). Some of the teases are for him, some are rewards for me, but you can change it however you want.

Rules and tips:

It’s a pretty loose game to be honest, just sometimes it’s fun to put the element of chance in, but there are a few key things to the way we’ll play it.

First he will be tied up, tight. Then he’ll be uncaged and have a cock ring put on to keep him nice and hard. The toys required he’ll have got out and made sure are clean and ready. As should he be, this involves various anal options!

This game should have safewords, as it does involve torture. We use ‘Red’ for stop and ‘Amber’ for ‘Don’t stop but I’m close to what I can stand’.

I might just leave him like that for a little bit, put on some porn in the background and spin the wheel a few times to read out options and talk them through to tease him. Play with the toys, imagining what I might do with them.

Then I’ll spin for real and follow the instructions, but really be as flexible as I fancy. We put some guides on strokes or time on some of them but vary it as you want. You can hit the button a few times to keep it spinning for longer if you want. It should work fine on a tablet or phone so you can show him as it spins.

There are a few insertions, butt plug, penis plug, nipple clamps. Basically decide if you want to leave them in place or take them off as it progresses. Some will need you too, others won’t. Just use common sense.

‘Band snaps’ are an elastic band around his cock that’s pulled back and let go.

For sitting on his cock you can either have him in you or just grind on him. For face sitting I like to blindfold him but it’s up to you.

There’s no defined finish to the game – You stop when you’re bored! He doesn’t get to cum in this game, If anything did take him over, you ruin the orgasm. Personally I’d tell him if he cums, it’ll be ruined AND I’ll give him a hard post orgasm torture (might as well enjoy the fact he’s all tied up) by using his cum to wank him hard while he’s all sensitive.

Hmm, actually now I think about it, that’s a perfect end to the game. Once you want to finish, spin the disk, don’t let him see the result, just say something like ‘ oh lucky you!’ as though he won an orgasm…

Then sit on his legs, start stroking him, when he gets close, tell him he isn’t allowed to cum, that if he does you’re going to ruin it and torture it. Then just keep going, and make him cum anyway! Make sure to ruin it properly, just hold the base as he cums, wait at least ten seconds after it’s all out, and then use his cum to stroke his cock and cock head especially really really hard. Don’t stop unless he uses a safeword, seriously, just go for it, see if you can get all the way past him being sensitive, you can even make him cum again sometimes. Ruin that too.

Untie, clean up and cuddle!

Enjoy!

This is a really hot position to edge him from. His mouth pleasuring your clit and pussy you can just take as long as you want playing with his cock, using your lubed hands and mouth to drive him crazy.

Of course, unlike this video, you don’t need to let him cum, just keep him edged as you enjoy your orgasms. Although, an alternative is to let him cum, well, ruin him. You see the fact you’re lying on him, makes him quite vulnerable, if you were… to keep rubbing him after he’s cum. Post orgasm torture as he buries his face into your pussy… Feeling him buck under you as you use his ruined orgasm’s lube to stroke his super sensitive cock. 

Just an idea…