smallofshame:

12 Ways For Men To Show Off a Bulge in Public

  1. Wear underwear that supports and pushes up
  2. Pack your penis and testicles to one side
  3. Wear padded briefs specially made for bicycling
  4. Grab your balls in public to optimize the arrangement and visual (very common in Spain and Arab countries)
  5. Wear light, thin and tight trousers
  6. Roll down your briefs and wear them under your balls (optional)
  7. Wear a cockring
  8. Re-arrange when the bulge dissapears
  9. wear an adjustable leather cockstrap around the base of your scrotum and penis. This will tend to thrust your package forwards and away from your body, making it more ‘bulgy’

  10. Pump your cock and balls with a 2-stage vacuum pump acrylic cylinder 
  11. Use the best static postures to show off the package.  Either sitting down with the legs not too far apart (the thighs will tend to squeeze the package upwards, making it more prominent). Or standing with one leg crossed casually in front of the other, with the weight resting on the uncrossed leg. The thigh of the crossed leg will thrust the package forwards, and the tilted hip will further emphasize it. This can create quite an impressive bulge, with a nice ‘overhang’ effect

  12. Use a male size-enhancing Speedo bulge.  

We had fun with him wearing a cock extender out to dinner a few times! With some suitably tight trousers to show it off.

smallofshame:

Ideas For Small Penis Humiliation

  1. Tell one of your girlfriends. Let him know, but do not tell him which one.
  2. Watch porn with him and talk about how big every guy is.
  3. Wonder out loud how big his friends are.
  4. Give his penis an unflattering nickname e.g. shorty, tiny, clit, Pin dick, maggot cock, baby dick, pee wee

    or Minnie

  5. When your teasing excites him and he cums too early, make fun of that too.
  6. Make you google what women think of small penises, you will get a whole ton of results on forums and blogs that have women all laughing at and insulting men with little stubs.

  7. Hold her forefinger and thumb barely an inch apart she will hold them up to let you see how small the gap is and how small your penis is. Squinting and laughing with one eye closed, she will make you look at it and leave you in no uncertain terms that you fail to measure up

  8. Hints about how small you are  in as many conversation as possible.
  9. Measure it against small objects like baby carrots, biro lids, AAA batteries, chips, fries your pinkie or anything else that’s small and thin, she will make you hold it against your stub to illustrate just how small it actually is and then she will laugh her head off as these tiny objects dwarf that excuse for a cock.
  10. Knowing you have a small penis is one thing but to ACTUALLY know just how small? Making you hold a ruler against it and then marking the tiny between the edge and where your tip reached. 1 inch? 2? MAYBE 3? Whatever it is, you better believe you’ll get ruthlessly cock mocked for it
  11. Wiggle her pinkie finger at you is perhaps one of the most humiliating gestures any woman can make to a guy. Clenching her fist and smiling as she holds her hand close to her face and mockingly wiggles her pinkie at you. 
  12. Tie a ribbon around it, maybe a nice pink one for effect?
  13. Have you tell her how small it is, having to admit to this gorgeous woman just how small it is will be an incredibly cruel thing for her to force you to do. Which is, of course, why she will make you do it! 
  14. Rub ice water on it to make it even smaller while she laughs. To make it shrivel so it is even smaller and she can then ridicule you about it being even tinier and asking how that is even possible. 
  15. Compare your penis to her previous partners or lovers, no one likes to know how much bigger an exes dick was but you will be forced to hear in gruesome detail, inch by inch, just how much better and bigger they were than you. 
  16. Compare your penis to a dildo, holding up a 10-inch rubber dildo, she will show where your penis reaches and highlight exactly how much more cock there is on it than you have. Also, she will comment on how much thicker it is.
  17. Make you grow your pubic hair so it’s hidden. No woman deserves to have to see that….thing……..so she will make you grow your pubes out so it stays hidden. 
  18. Make you shave your pubes to expose its lack of size. Make you shave bald so it is highlighted just how small it is. Pubes can give a false sense of size so being naked and shaved will make it obvious and plainer to see just what size it actually is.
  19. Recall all the women who laughed or refused to sleep with you, the experience of a woman laughing at your penis or picking up her bag and leaving when she sees it is hard enough but instead of you pushing the image away, she will make you recount, in agonizing detail, each and every experience you had.

  20. Take a picture and post it online, Everyone who visits her blog should know what a tiny penis you have. The whole world has access to see that extra belly button you have.
  21. The toilet roll holder test – if it fits in a toilet roll then it’s not thick enough. If it doesn’t come out the other end, its not long enough. You and she both know you don’t even come close but she will still make you do it anyway just so she can laugh at it.
  22. Sit Down To Pee, real men stand up to pee. Little dick losers like you need to sit down because it can’t even stretch out of the zipper in your pants so the piss dribbles down your trousers so drop your pants and sit down like a good girl to pee. Extremely humiliating and very emasculating.

Some interesting ideas here, here’s some of my favourites, with maybe some tweaks or notes:

  1. Pretend to have told one of your girlfriends. Make up the fake conversation you had.
  2. Watch porn with him and talk about how big every guy is. Add ‘I wish you were that big’ Get him to find you porn of big cocks too!
  3. Wonder out loud how big his friends are. ‘Which of your friends has the biggest cock do you think?’
  4. Give his penis an unflattering nickname I like ‘dicklet’
  5. When your teasing excites him and he cums too early, make fun of that too.
  6. Make you google what women think of small penises, you will get a whole ton of results on forums and blogs that have women all laughing at and insulting men with little stubs. Interesting idea.
  7. Hold her forefinger and thumb barely an inch apart she will hold them up to let you see how small the gap is and how small your penis is. Squinting and laughing with one eye closed, she will make you look at it and leave you in no uncertain terms that you fail to measure up
  8. Hints about how small you are  in as many conversation as possible.
  9. Knowing you have a small penis is one thing but to ACTUALLY know just how small? Making you hold a ruler against it and then marking the tiny between the edge and where your tip reached. 
  10. Tie a ribbon around it, maybe a nice pink one for effect? This could be cute!
  11. Rub ice water on it to make it even smaller while she laughs. To make it shrivel so it is even smaller. A cold shower might be easier?
  12. Compare his penis to a dildo, holding up a 10-inch rubber dildo, she will show where your penis reaches and highlight exactly how much more cock there is on it than you have. Also, she will comment on how much thicker it is. I use the King Cock Dildo for this
  13. Make you shave your pubes to expose its lack of size. Make you shave bald so it is highlighted just how small it is. Pubes can give a false sense of size so being naked and shaved will make it obvious and plainer to see just what size it actually is. I like this one
  14. The toilet roll holder test – if it fits in a toilet roll then it’s not thick enough. If it doesn’t come out the other end, its not long enough. You and she both know you don’t even come close but she will still make you do it anyway just so she can laugh at it. This doesn’t work for us as he passes it! lol
  15. Cage it. Obviously. Size is the hottest excuse for it I find, as it’s just so unfair and unalterable!

simmer-until:

Day 60

I can’t believe how hard I am inside this tiny cage. I can’t believe I’m ten days from smashing through last year’s record.

I can’t believe she’s talking about moving the goalposts or expectation. That tease and denial is to be my pleasure. That the intense edges are what I should expect as gifts. Orgasms aren’t being discussed except as a mental break from this daily insanity.

I’ve checked my journal entries. I have had a journal entry for nearly each day over the last two months. She’s been keeping me completely enthralled.

I’ve gotten lots of ruined orgasms. Now she’s counting the drops. “Just one drop.” “But you came. You spilled four or five drops”

She calls any spurt an orgasm. Even if I’m completely untouched during them.

I’m going insane in this Contender cage. I feel no pain but it is gripping me fiercely.

I’m a mess of precum.

I love her. I don’t want this to end. I don’t want to crash.

I should be glad to be locked most of the time and edged nearly every day. And I am. But

Damn. This is difficult.

Gosh, impressive!

faontk:

Make the Chastity Cage Key Inaccessible

There are many ways to make the key inaccessible or difficult to retrieve while you’re locked up. A keyholder taking possession is one option but there are many others, whether playing solo or with a partner.

  1. Hide the key in a public place that is not accessible 24/7 : eg: under the corner of a carpet in a public library, or somewhere in a shopping mall. The more restrictive the opening hours and further from the normal places you visit the more awkward it will be to retrieve.
  2. Bury the key in the grounds of a rest stop some distance from home.
  3. Put the key in a box and bury it in the garden. The bigger and deeper the hole, the more difficult it will be to retrieve it.
  4. Go for a walk in the country some distance from the nearest road and hide the key container in a tree, bury near a fence post, the country option can make it really awkward to retrieve if it’s dark, wet, …
  5. Seal the key into a glass bottle by melting the neck together the bottle will have to be broken to access it, a small bottle also makes a good container to bury the key somewhere.
  6. Hide the key in a secure/awkward location where you work.
  7. Visit a friend/relative and hide the key in their house/garden [unknown to them].
  8. Any of the above can be done locally, or at a location you only visit once or twice a month, or some great distance from home.
  9. Put the key on a ring and ask a friend/relative to look after it. [you can add a couple of other keys to the ring and just say it’s your spare house or car keys – doesn’t have to be the actual house key]. This option is a long term one as it limits you to the number of times you can use the excuse of loosing your key / locking yourself out!

Some… interesting ideas there, but it misses a really obvious one (that’s much easier than ‘melting a glass bottle’, WHAT?!!! Not unless you have a glass kiln! Glass melts at about 1,000 degrees Celsius!)

Put the key in an empty can or glass jar or even glass bottle (no lid though) and fill it with water and freeze it!

You can’t instantly get to the key, which is the whole point of all of these, and the glass options stop you attempting to smash it at all.

Love the last one though, putting it on a bunch of keys. Perfect if you have a really hot neighbour lol ‘I like to leave a spare set of keys with a neighbour for emergencies, is that okay?’

If you’re really brave add a key fob with your name and then ‘keephimcaged.tumblr.com’ on it

laotk:

Sexual Frustration

The sexual frustration that comes from losing control of your cock is the result of being kept in a prolonged state of intense sexual arousal. This can come in the form of a single night’s cock stroking to the tease and denial games of a masturbatrix… or a series of sessions spanning days or even weeks of long term orgasm denial that may include regular cock stroking with no release, or no masturbation at all – forced male chastity.

The objective is to tease and manipulate the slave to the very edge of orgasm and ride it for as long as the masturbatrix decides… hovering in that intensely sensitive, euphoric state a man enters just before he cums, and enjoying it far longer than one would if the act of masturbation. 

Relief can only come with an orgasm, and denial of that will end in nothing but pain in the form of what’s commonly known as “blue balls”. 

Another possible ending other than blue balls is what’s called a “ruined orgasm”, where the man is allowed to cum but as the orgasm arrives – absolutely no touching – and thus robbing him of the full enjoyment of his climax, leaving him feeling finished, but unfulfilled… and since he didn’t really get what he wanted – also left feeling very submissive and used.

So, I’m not a dominatrix, I’m never going to be. I’m loving being switchy with hubby and how the cock cage makes me feel empowered and sexy, however taking control all the time just ain’t my thing. 

But there’s a word in here that I totally LOVE:

Masturbatrix

That’s SO hot, that’s totally what I’ve become! My hubby, who used to masturbate quite a lot before we discovered chastity play, now NEVER does, I am in control of it all (unless he’s doing it for me of course). And I’m adoring spending long evenings stroking him and then usually denying him or perhaps ruining him.

Damn, I’ve become a Masturbatrix! And I love it!