Hello Jane, First I would like to thank you for all the work you put into making Locktober so special. We enjoyed reading each entry every night when I got home from work. I made it all month locked in chastity with only two orgasms in the cage and many for my wife, while I was left in my cage. I especially like setting up an Tumblr of our own and enjoy adding pictures, and my wife has looked at it a couple of times. We plan on having my first full orgasm while pegging this weekend. John

You’re so very welcome, John, it’s so nice to hear that, thank you!! The Tumblr thing is great isn’t it, a shared kinky place for you both. Try setting aside a date night sometime where you post a load of things that you think will turn HER on (not HOPE, think) and then tell her you’re going to go down on her while she browses them all. Her job is to give you feedback on the ones she likes most – such a hot evening’s entertainment.

Your blog is the reason I joined tumblr. I love your blog. I wish I had someone to do locktober with. I really appreciate the work you e put into this.

That’s so sweet of you, thank you!

Obviously the blog was made to focus on the couples stuff we enjoy but I’m more than happy to hear any suggestions on what single guys might enjoy or find useful!

Jane xx

smallofshame:

12 Ways For Men To Show Off a Bulge in Public

  1. Wear underwear that supports and pushes up
  2. Pack your penis and testicles to one side
  3. Wear padded briefs specially made for bicycling
  4. Grab your balls in public to optimize the arrangement and visual (very common in Spain and Arab countries)
  5. Wear light, thin and tight trousers
  6. Roll down your briefs and wear them under your balls (optional)
  7. Wear a cockring
  8. Re-arrange when the bulge dissapears
  9. wear an adjustable leather cockstrap around the base of your scrotum and penis. This will tend to thrust your package forwards and away from your body, making it more ‘bulgy’

  10. Pump your cock and balls with a 2-stage vacuum pump acrylic cylinder 
  11. Use the best static postures to show off the package.  Either sitting down with the legs not too far apart (the thighs will tend to squeeze the package upwards, making it more prominent). Or standing with one leg crossed casually in front of the other, with the weight resting on the uncrossed leg. The thigh of the crossed leg will thrust the package forwards, and the tilted hip will further emphasize it. This can create quite an impressive bulge, with a nice ‘overhang’ effect

  12. Use a male size-enhancing Speedo bulge.  

We had fun with him wearing a cock extender out to dinner a few times! With some suitably tight trousers to show it off.

smallofshame:

Ideas For Small Penis Humiliation

  1. Tell one of your girlfriends. Let him know, but do not tell him which one.
  2. Watch porn with him and talk about how big every guy is.
  3. Wonder out loud how big his friends are.
  4. Give his penis an unflattering nickname e.g. shorty, tiny, clit, Pin dick, maggot cock, baby dick, pee wee

    or Minnie

  5. When your teasing excites him and he cums too early, make fun of that too.
  6. Make you google what women think of small penises, you will get a whole ton of results on forums and blogs that have women all laughing at and insulting men with little stubs.

  7. Hold her forefinger and thumb barely an inch apart she will hold them up to let you see how small the gap is and how small your penis is. Squinting and laughing with one eye closed, she will make you look at it and leave you in no uncertain terms that you fail to measure up

  8. Hints about how small you are  in as many conversation as possible.
  9. Measure it against small objects like baby carrots, biro lids, AAA batteries, chips, fries your pinkie or anything else that’s small and thin, she will make you hold it against your stub to illustrate just how small it actually is and then she will laugh her head off as these tiny objects dwarf that excuse for a cock.
  10. Knowing you have a small penis is one thing but to ACTUALLY know just how small? Making you hold a ruler against it and then marking the tiny between the edge and where your tip reached. 1 inch? 2? MAYBE 3? Whatever it is, you better believe you’ll get ruthlessly cock mocked for it
  11. Wiggle her pinkie finger at you is perhaps one of the most humiliating gestures any woman can make to a guy. Clenching her fist and smiling as she holds her hand close to her face and mockingly wiggles her pinkie at you. 
  12. Tie a ribbon around it, maybe a nice pink one for effect?
  13. Have you tell her how small it is, having to admit to this gorgeous woman just how small it is will be an incredibly cruel thing for her to force you to do. Which is, of course, why she will make you do it! 
  14. Rub ice water on it to make it even smaller while she laughs. To make it shrivel so it is even smaller and she can then ridicule you about it being even tinier and asking how that is even possible. 
  15. Compare your penis to her previous partners or lovers, no one likes to know how much bigger an exes dick was but you will be forced to hear in gruesome detail, inch by inch, just how much better and bigger they were than you. 
  16. Compare your penis to a dildo, holding up a 10-inch rubber dildo, she will show where your penis reaches and highlight exactly how much more cock there is on it than you have. Also, she will comment on how much thicker it is.
  17. Make you grow your pubic hair so it’s hidden. No woman deserves to have to see that….thing……..so she will make you grow your pubes out so it stays hidden. 
  18. Make you shave your pubes to expose its lack of size. Make you shave bald so it is highlighted just how small it is. Pubes can give a false sense of size so being naked and shaved will make it obvious and plainer to see just what size it actually is.
  19. Recall all the women who laughed or refused to sleep with you, the experience of a woman laughing at your penis or picking up her bag and leaving when she sees it is hard enough but instead of you pushing the image away, she will make you recount, in agonizing detail, each and every experience you had.

  20. Take a picture and post it online, Everyone who visits her blog should know what a tiny penis you have. The whole world has access to see that extra belly button you have.
  21. The toilet roll holder test – if it fits in a toilet roll then it’s not thick enough. If it doesn’t come out the other end, its not long enough. You and she both know you don’t even come close but she will still make you do it anyway just so she can laugh at it.
  22. Sit Down To Pee, real men stand up to pee. Little dick losers like you need to sit down because it can’t even stretch out of the zipper in your pants so the piss dribbles down your trousers so drop your pants and sit down like a good girl to pee. Extremely humiliating and very emasculating.

Some interesting ideas here, here’s some of my favourites, with maybe some tweaks or notes:

  1. Pretend to have told one of your girlfriends. Make up the fake conversation you had.
  2. Watch porn with him and talk about how big every guy is. Add ‘I wish you were that big’ Get him to find you porn of big cocks too!
  3. Wonder out loud how big his friends are. ‘Which of your friends has the biggest cock do you think?’
  4. Give his penis an unflattering nickname I like ‘dicklet’
  5. When your teasing excites him and he cums too early, make fun of that too.
  6. Make you google what women think of small penises, you will get a whole ton of results on forums and blogs that have women all laughing at and insulting men with little stubs. Interesting idea.
  7. Hold her forefinger and thumb barely an inch apart she will hold them up to let you see how small the gap is and how small your penis is. Squinting and laughing with one eye closed, she will make you look at it and leave you in no uncertain terms that you fail to measure up
  8. Hints about how small you are  in as many conversation as possible.
  9. Knowing you have a small penis is one thing but to ACTUALLY know just how small? Making you hold a ruler against it and then marking the tiny between the edge and where your tip reached. 
  10. Tie a ribbon around it, maybe a nice pink one for effect? This could be cute!
  11. Rub ice water on it to make it even smaller while she laughs. To make it shrivel so it is even smaller. A cold shower might be easier?
  12. Compare his penis to a dildo, holding up a 10-inch rubber dildo, she will show where your penis reaches and highlight exactly how much more cock there is on it than you have. Also, she will comment on how much thicker it is. I use the King Cock Dildo for this
  13. Make you shave your pubes to expose its lack of size. Make you shave bald so it is highlighted just how small it is. Pubes can give a false sense of size so being naked and shaved will make it obvious and plainer to see just what size it actually is. I like this one
  14. The toilet roll holder test – if it fits in a toilet roll then it’s not thick enough. If it doesn’t come out the other end, its not long enough. You and she both know you don’t even come close but she will still make you do it anyway just so she can laugh at it. This doesn’t work for us as he passes it! lol
  15. Cage it. Obviously. Size is the hottest excuse for it I find, as it’s just so unfair and unalterable!

Father’s Day Chastity Gift

This Father’s Day give your hubby a real thrill he won’t forget.

1. Get him worked up – tell him you have plans for him later, maybe accompanied by some fun tumblr posts

2. Once in bed, if you can, tie him up! Whether you use proper restraints or just some silk scarves or ties, it always makes it more intense

3. Play something sexy in the background – on a tablet or TV, getting some favourite porn going is a fun treat on Father’s Day, even if he just gets to listen to it

4. Start teasing – warn him that no matter what happens tonight, he’s going to end up locked back in his cage, and the amount of time depends on just what he gets as his Father’s Day gift

Get into it yourself too, grab a vibe and edge yourself as you play with him and tease him – don’t cum yet, it’ll help you be meaner! 

5. The rules of the game are as follows (you can change the numbers and options to suit your level of intensity but here’s what I’m doing)

Days locked up before your next orgasm:

  • Handjob – 2 days
  • Blowjob – 3 days
  • Sex – 4 days
  • Anal sex – 5 days
  • Being pegged – 7 days

You could just pick the highest he asks for… or… you could add them up (that’s what we’ll do! So a handjob, and blowjob, finished with sex, would be 9 days.

But that’s just for receiving those, there’s a multiplier!

If he has a ruined orgasm, the days are doubled

If he has a full orgasm, the days are tripled.

Or he could just be left, balls full and desperate, to only get the basic amount.

So best case scenario would be a father’s day handjob for just two days lock up, but without cumming

But a handjob, BJ, sex then anal sex where he cums, which would be 42 days!

While you’re doing all these, remind him how much time is getting added on, that’s so hot. If you want to fuck him, whisper that if he cums it’s going to cost him 15 days locked up! 

Once he’s cum, or you’ve stopped, try and lock up his cock before you release him, trust me, if you can it’s super hot!

Our rules, for whatever is the outcome, is that he’ll get regular edges when locked up, BUT if he cums before the time is up, he will be locked up without release for the rest of the time (this works REALLY well as a rule for us).

I hope that inspires some of you! Enjoy and Happy Father’s Day!

Jane xxx

So, even if you’ve promised him an orgasm. Even if you’ve played some game and he’s earned it, sometimes, just sometimes, turn the tables… always hottest if he’s tied up I find…

Get him really close, then tell him, don’t ask, tell him to ask not to cum. Maybe first say ‘beg me to ruin it’ watch the arousal and dismay, it’s so hot. Keep telling him, say you want to hear it, how hot it would be, make him say it, not nastily, but lovingly, persuasively, and when he say’s please ruin me, ask him to tell you why, why being ruined is better, really take him deep into it.

And then, as you take him even closer, once he’s already give up his orgasm and asked for a ruin… tell him to ask to be left like this, take away even that. ‘Good, now beg me not to let you cum at all, ask me to leave your balls full, your cock dripping, and cage you back up without release’.

Watch him fall apart, as he asks, as that part of him that wants exactly that is let out. It’s beautiful. Your little edge slut… Maybe give him one last long slow edge as what he gave up sinks in. But be strong, Stick to what he asked for!

And then do it. If you can, cage him back up yourself. Then make out, a lot, it’s so fucking hot!

Hubby confessed he wanted me to do this recently. It wasn’t top of my list for hot ideas but honestly, once we did it it was much more fun and hotter than I expected!

The best bit though… my friend had to go, but I pretended I was still on the phone! So I started to drop in some things that hubby couldn’t believe.

‘What am I up to? I probably shouldn’t say…’

‘I’m giving James a handjob, yes I’m serious. He can’t believe I just told you! No no, I don’t need to go, it’s not like he needs two hands’

‘No he didn’t know I’d told you about his little problem, he does now!’

That kind of stuff. It was brilliant but he figured out I was faking, I couldn’t stop laughing after a while. If I’d have held it together I’d have wanted to end it like this though…

Maybe next time…

Big Cocks VS Little Dicks

Big Cocks VS Little Dicks

Well this is sexy in all kinds of ways. Just a lovely slow teasing handjob, I like the double cock rings too! And she’s focused on getting his cum out, not his pleasure, she slows it right down as he’s cumming. So clinical, and hot.

And of course we have the option of making him drink it but I love that she does it!

I’ve always swallowed (it’s how he taught me…) but it’s never been a big turn on, apart from knowing he loved me doing it.

Isn’t it ironic now I make him drink it sometimes too, somehow that makes me want to more? Maybe it’s taken away the ‘I have to do this’ element to ‘I want to’.

So here’s my challenge, surprise him, Drink it, have fun with it just like she does, blow his expectations away. Not doing it because it’s expected, but because you want to.

‘See honey, now we’re both cum sluts’

Oh and after you swallow, spend a long time making out. I bet you THAT gets him hard again fast…