Tag: cunnilingus

Switch out that last cigarette with a chilled glass of white wine and we have a winner!

This is so true, I’ve never had so much oral sex until we started caging him up. At first felt guilty about it but he kept telling me that it was hot to be made to go down on me and just focus on my pleasure, not even knowing if he’ll get any. So I’ve taken him at his word and tell him I want him to lick me all the time now, it’s amazing!

He will tell you if he doesn’t want to, he’ll tell you if his tongue is tired, stop making excuses that don’t exist. He gets aroused by you being horny, wanting pleasure, and telling him you want it.

So try it, ‘I’m horny honey, come and lick me’ – he will love it!

And for some reason he tells me it’s really hot if I do something else sometimes, like read a book, or watch a movie (I already mentioned how me watching porn he can’t see while he does this drives him CRAZY! lol), so try those too!

Just be aware he’ll slowly be able to go longer and longer, if he’s new to it five or ten minutes is all he’ll be able to do before he needs to use fingers or a toy. Nowadays hubby goes down on me for half an hour or more and I cum a few times at least.

‘Don’t ask me, tell me, it’s much hotter’

That’s what hubby said to me at the weekend. As you’ll know if you’ve read the blog, he’s actually pretty dominant, (although obviously wonderfully switchy given we do all this!) but he was very clear with me that when he’s caged, particularly when I want oral sex without letting him out, he wants me to tell him to do it, not be polite and ask.

Things you might say:

  • ‘Honey I’m horny, come and lick my clit for a while
  • I’m in the mood for some oral sex, no baby, just on me
  • Make me cum with your mouth, right now
  • Are you horny and frustrated honey? Good, me too, but I’m not in a cage, so come and suck on my clit if you ever want to be let out
  • You get the idea…

The other twist for us is that when he’s down there, he teases the living fuck out of me. One reason is because it reminds me when he’s out of the cage he loves to deny me (it really is a shared kink!) but also he’s told me he loves it when i get so desperate I grab his hair and push him against me. Mmmm, I love it when he does that to me too so it’s not hard to empathise!

The two positions that we use most are simply me lying on the bed and him on it too, but also like this picture, with me on the edge of the bed and him kneeling on the floor. 

My latest game is to make him do this and then put on some porn, but he can’t watch because he’s between my legs. OMG so sexy. I never really used to like porn at all but he used to watch lots, so this is a HUGE tease for him. But more than that, I’ve actually found some I like that gives me some great ideas of how to ‘act’ sexy and as long as we watch it together I feel okay with it. Actually when I say, I found it, he did… I told him to find me some he thought I’d like, with his cage on of course – that got some fun messages about how mean I was :D.  FYI the majority of the stuff I liked was by a company called X-art, as the name suggests, it’s absolutely beautiful and very classy.