I think this set is so sexy, I love to edge hubby like this, him on a chair or the end of the bed, and just totally focused on using both hands with our favourite silicon lube.

Of course he’s not allowed to cum… if he does I just slide my hand down to the base of his cock and either let him just jet his cum out as the orgasm is ruined, or more recently I’ll bend forward and gently put my mouth just around the very tip, and let him ruin into my mouth. Then I crawl up next to him and put my mouth on his and make him drink all his unauthorised sperm and take it back into his system…

Either way, it’s straight back into the cage.

This is a great idea! I love the challenge both of us have, and I like the dinner idea for me, but it doesn’t work so well for him. I think a better prize for him would be something like anal sex or sucking his cock while he plays a computer game. He might come up with something else too, I’ll let you know if he does!

Get in his head – tease him about something he really wants

My husband has wanted to have anal sex with me for years but I’ve never really fancied it. We play around with the idea and I kind of like  him rubbing iti when I’m really turned on, and he likes me playing with his bum but no, never had his cock in there.

Until now.. lol

You see I got the idea of teasing him about it when he was caged, I’d sit above him and rub myself against his caged cock and then found myself saying, ‘I bet you’d love to stick it in my bum right now’

I think the cage nearly burst.

So then I said some more things like, ‘You know it’s funny, I never really wanted it before but if you weren’t caged right now I think I’d love it. What a shame’

‘Would you like that baby? Would you like to stick your hard cock in my virgin bum hole? Do you want revenge for me locking you up?

I swear if he wasn’t tied down and caged he’d have buggered me right then! It was SO HOT!

I haven’t seen him want me that much since the early days of our relationship.

The irony is that the whole thing turned me on so much I actually let him do it to me on our wedding anniversary… and confession time, I really loved it (yeah I know, Im’ dumb for never trying it before) (Make him research how to do it well when caged too, that drove him crazy but it meant even our first time was good!)

Protip – you can never use too much lube!

It may not be anal, it might be all kinds of things you know he wants sexually but haven’t done, but teasing him when caged is a great idea. Maybe it’s having sex somewhere public, swallowing his cum, a facial, cumming on my boobs, whatever – try it!

In the beginning..

Welcome to our blog, this is our first post and I just wntaed to explain what this is for.

A few months ago my husband surprised me by suggesting we cage his cock. I didn’t really understand why and was shocked at first but its turned into something very exciting for us both.

The reason we’ve started this blog is because a lot of the things we find on tumblr about chastity and tease and denial either focus very much on the man being submissive, which my husband certainly isn’t, or for really stupid amounts of time, which neither of us really enjoy much.

Actually my husband is pretty dominant in the bedroom and out of it, so the things I’d seen about caging a cock before didn’t really fit well in my head about it but we’ve found it can work really well even in that dynamic.

So we’re going to try and share some of our thoughts on how this has worked for us and try and repost some of the best things we find on tumblr that fit in with how we think.