You’re so very welcome, John, it’s so nice to hear that, thank you!! The Tumblr thing is great isn’t it, a shared kinky place for you both. Try setting aside a date night sometime where you post a load of things that you think will turn HER on (not HOPE, think) and then tell her you’re going to go down on her while she browses them all. Her job is to give you feedback on the ones she likes most – such a hot evening’s entertainment.