So we have a question in regards to what you may do… New to the whole chastity thing and especially her being dominate. However hubby made a mistake and put in his plug without asking and wore it over night, trying to come up with a suitable punishment, please help… What would you do?

I’d tell you to lighten up. Really, you can’t jump into it all with lots of rules and punishments, if that’s not naturally who we are as the woman, and yo usay she’s new to it, then you have to focus on having fun and intimacy at the heart of it all and SLOWLY build from there.

Read through the locktober posts together, let her pick which ones she thinks sound most fun, do NOT talk about chastity and fem dom all the time, give her room to take it at her pace, and you might just see she learns to love it.

Jane xxx