Wow, cage it in tiger! Actually, I don’t think this is much to worry about, it’s just the two of you learning to read the signs that you’re getting over excited. The challenge for her is to be able to, and even possibly enjoy telling you ‘enough’. She’ll be able to see it better than you…
Month: May 2016
Why I love our strap-on…
keephimcaged: So, one of the big surprises in our last year of exploring chastity and denial play has been how big a role the strap-on has become in our sex life. It’s still something we only use maybe once a week, twice at most, but this time last year even the idea of that would…
I LOVE the development of this blog. You are turning into the go to source for the best of Tumblr and the best of ideas that can turn this fantasy into a workable reality for a loving couple. I am getting weak at the knees with some of the implications!
Aww that’s so lovely to hear! Thank you. I’m still trying to figure out how all the bells and whistles with this theme works but hopefully it’ll make it easier to access as I’ve written lots of good stuff already but it’s almost impossible to find! I keep getting messages asking if I’ve written a…
How to cage your man
Nice to see a site like this that isn’t pushing all the extremes in your face (although they do enjoy ‘domestic discipline’ which isn’t our thing. But lots of practical advice and chastity and devices etc, definitely worth checking out!
It’s good to be back drawing and I decided to start with some pegging humiliation! Pegging and chastity are two of my favourite things so I hope you will enjoy it as much as I did! Inspired from the lovely @chastefetish @newyear-newkinks
I just found your Locktober page, I noticed it didn’t go all the way through the month. Are you doing it again this year? Then I got to thinking of other month themes. MAYbe, JUNEknow I haven’t made my mind up! The obvious NOvember, And people wonder how chastity could ever be seen as fun!
I did run out of energy a bit on those, it’s true! Although I’ve got ten times as many followers now so I’m sure I’d get more feedback to keep me going when we do it again!
Brilliant blog! Thank you very much for sharing your thoughts
Chastity belt training reviewed
1. You are not punishing your man – you are protecting him from his perfectly normal lack of self-control.
2. You are not denying him sexual pleasure. In fact, when you do release him from his male chastity belt, sex will feel better for him and his orgasms will become much more intense.
3. You are not denying yourself the sex life you deserve. While he’s locked up he’ll use his mouth and fingers to provide you with sexual satisfaction on a regular basis. And, there are ways that you have satisfying penetrative sex while he is still under lock and key.
4. Men will try to claim they need to have regular orgasms to stay healthy. This simply isn’t true. They do need to have ejaculations every so often; but you can make this happen in a matter of minutes without him getting an erection or having an orgasm.
5. Hundreds of thousands of married couples are in the male chastity lifestyle. It’s not kinky. In fact, the odds are that several of your friends already have their husband’s crown jewels locked away.
6. When done correctly, your man will feel more loved by you than he did before male chastity became a part of your life. In fact, most men eventually thank their wives for insisting on the lifestyle.
7. While at first you’ll only keep him locked up for a few days at a time, eventually he should be restricted to eight to 12 orgasms a year. This is more than enough.
8. Over time he’ll start to feel like more of a man, because he’ll know that all of his sexual energy is going towards pleasing you. He’ll like the fact that he no longer feels like a little boy who can’t help but play with his little pee-pee when you are not looking. Instead, he will be saving himself for you!
Interesting reading! I’m still undecided on what an ideal gap between orgasms is.
Honestly I think it varies and is something up for continual review. A couple of weeks is a nice gap for him to get super horny, longer does have extra benefits of his balls getting very full and achey, which is hot. Still a work in progress!
Bondage and teasing should always have a sense of humor too. I might do this to my husband, he’d probably like it!